The 9-Day Memorial Service (Parastas): What Happens, What to Prepare and the Orthodox Meaning
The 9-day parastas: its meaning, what to prepare, the church service, what is given as pomana, and how to organise it in Orthodox tradition.
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Orthodox memorial services are held at 3, 9 and 40 days, then at 6 months and a year, with the day of death counted as day 1; the first step: speak with the parish priest 2–7 days beforehand. We know how much you want to do everything with care and respect. Here you will find: the vigil and the Prohod service · the 9-day memorial service (roughly 175–550 lei without the meal) and the 40-day one (from about 1,500 lei) · the colivă, the colaci and the pomană parcels · what is worn in mourning. Each family chooses according to its faith and its means.
The 9-day parastas: its meaning, what to prepare, the church service, what is given as pomana, and how to organise it in Orthodox tradition.
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